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Ask a Question What would you like to know about this product? Connect With Us. Sign In Desktop Site. Dimensions: 8. This book is a great resource for Christians who have genuine love and compassion for people who experience same sex attraction and all others; this struggle is simply singled out as it is pertinent to the topic of this book and also hold to a Biblical definition of sex and marriage.

Written from the perspective of two pastors- one who previously lived a gay lifestyle and another who has counseled and ministered to many people with same sex attraction- it does a good job of being both grace-fi This book is a great resource for Christians who have genuine love and compassion for people who experience same sex attraction and all others; this struggle is simply singled out as it is pertinent to the topic of this book and also hold to a Biblical definition of sex and marriage.

Written from the perspective of two pastors- one who previously lived a gay lifestyle and another who has counseled and ministered to many people with same sex attraction- it does a good job of being both grace-filled and truthful. One of the most helpful premises in the book is how our sexuality is not our identity. In a culture that throws around labels and identities like Mardi Gras beads, it is helpful as Christians to remember that our Biblical identity is that of a child of God.

Once feelings and desires are brought down to their appropriate level and put in proper perspective God's , it is much easier for us to surrender them to the will of God.

The authors also do a great job of suggesting different ways to handle a variety of situations in which we find our convictions and compassion conflicting, always based on the individual relationships.

While it likely won't answer every question you have or give you definitive answers on how to handle it they believe each situation should be directed by the Holy Spirit, and I agree , it is a great resource and definitely worth reading.

Jan 10, Oliver rated it liked it Shelves: faith , politics , life , psychology. There is helpful information here. But I felt it fell short in a couple ways.

First, though in general it talked about scripture issues used to minimize or deflect the meaning of verses which appear to oppose homosexual practice, there were several exegetical concerns which were never pushed into. This makes it feel incomplete. Second, I don't quite get how they land the plane at advising against attending same sex weddings, on the grounds that people in Scripture who are sinning do not have rede There is helpful information here.

Second, I don't quite get how they land the plane at advising against attending same sex weddings, on the grounds that people in Scripture who are sinning do not have redemption. I don't see that. I see patriarchs and kingd never divorce their multiple wives and return to the "one man one woman" model of Genesis.

What is happening there? Abraham and David are the two most obvious examples as they are both identified in the NT as having received grace and redemption. By extension, if a gay couple comes to Christ is it necessary they divorce?

It seems that another question must be asked: what is the most loving thing to do? Tearing apart a family, destroying long reinforced support structures, are these really the way God would have? Because the patriarchs didn't do that. There are still more questions to be asked and wrestled through. Having said that, I found the thoughts of the book to be mostly helpful especially considering how many Christians I know who err more to the truth and less to the love, to the detriment of the message of humility, love and compassion they is central to the Gospel.

Aug 14, Olivia rated it it was amazing. Such a great book to give real biblical insight on this topic. One of the two authors came out of a lifestyle of homosexuality and is very informative on his radical transformation and restoration.

I wish I had read this sooner Solid explanations, excellent applications This book provides an unflinching, hopeful, and above all Biblical perspective on homosexuality. But where it really shines is in the practical application sections. The authors show readers exactly what it might look like to speak the truth in love in today's brave new world. May 25, Aleena Grosjean rated it it was amazing. Learning how to love those that are struggling, no matter what the sin, without compromising what the Bible has to say about sin - that is what this book teaches you to do.

It isn't easy, but it is good. Sep 12, Ben K rated it really liked it. The title sums it up. Biblically sound instruction on how to lovingly engage with our gay friends. I appreciated the perspective of one of the co-authors who has himself struggled with homosexual desire.

Jun 02, Megan Lewis rated it it was amazing. Thoughtful, insightful and encouraging. Dec 29, Nancy rated it it was amazing Shelves: trust-in-god , faith , growth , truth-issues , christian-life. Want to read again and take notes. Jan 19, Zach rated it it was amazing. Unless you have had your head in the sand for past few decades, you know that our culture is engaged in a great debate about sexual identity and ethics. This has caused tremendous issues for the church as it seeks to stand on biblical truth but at the same time engaging the culture for the sake of the gospel.

Sadly, sometimes, Christians and churches can go to extremes in their stance on the sexual discussion in our culture, specifically as it relates to homosexuality. The first extreme is a har Unless you have had your head in the sand for past few decades, you know that our culture is engaged in a great debate about sexual identity and ethics.

The first extreme is a hardline stance towards homosexuality. In the process many people are hurt by the church and hold a negative view towards Christians. The second extreme is a softer stance towards homosexuality. Many in the church simply hope that the issue can be resolved with legislation and having the right politicians in office. But the fact is this issue is not going away, nor is legislation and politics the answer.

Both of these pastors have real credibility on this issue, especially Ron, who struggled with homosexuality before he came to Christ. His story is a wonderful testimony to the power of the gospel of Jesus Christ to save anyone who is far from God. In the book they unapologetically stand on the biblical ethic of sexuality inside the bonds of marriage between one man and one woman for life. They also do an excellent job of diagnosing the heart of the issue, which is sin, but also describe the remedy which is Jesus.

The great hope for the sexual sinner, what will begin to set things right, is to catch a glimpse of Jesus. Yet, Jesus met us at our lowest point and showed us his grace as a free gift. How often we forget that truth! It is so easy to judge people in their sin and forget the ugliness of our own sin that Jesus paid for. Jesus is the only remedy for the human condition! I truly believe that the way the culture will view the church in the future will be greatly influenced by the posture that the church has towards the homosexual issue.

However, if the church holds a posture of humility as sinners saved by grace, we can earn a hearing with our culture for the sake of the gospel. I highly recommend Compassion Without Compromise for any pastor, small group leader, and disciple maker that is serious about making a dent in our culture for the sake of the gospel! In the days ahead every believer will be asked to pick a stance on this issue. Get prepared, this book is a great resource that will point you in the right direction.

Apr 29, Marissa rated it did not like it Shelves: reading-list , review-books. My beliefs and opinions on this subject and this book have drastically changed.

It was sort of slow-going, and if you are familiar with the Christian argument for marriage and homosexuality, you will probably find quite a bit of the book redundant. The last fourth of Compassion without Compromise was really good, ho My beliefs and opinions on this subject and this book have drastically changed.

The last fourth of Compassion without Compromise was really good, however, and how this book managed to earn 4 stars. They use Scripture to support their beliefs, and also provide some practical advice on how to handle several different situations involving homosexuals and us as Believers.

They do not write step-by-step plans, but offer sound advice that equips the reader to make sound decision in these difficult, grey areas. One of the things I found most difficult, though, was their representation of their beliefs on homosexual desires and conversions. I appreciate that they took the time to outline and define homosexuality, but one of my biggest problems is those who push that God will change your homosexual desires to heterosexual desires once you become a Christian.

Ron clarifies that this is not the case for everyone, some believers will still struggle with same-sex desires, but I wish this would have been a stronger point in the book.

I believe that the Lord is capable of not only changing our hearts but out desires as well. This is not always the case though with homosexuality, and a lot of individuals fall away because of this false belief and pressure to change themselves.

I am not saying it is okay to act on these desires, but temptations are there for all of us— and it is our decision whether or not to act on them. That does not mean those temptations disappear or are no longer tempting. There is such a great need for community and support for homosexuals in our churches, and I am glad that both Ron and Adam did talk about that. They expressed the need for believers to surround our gay community with love, and then to confront the sin.

We hope these resources are helpful to you and your discussion group. How can we navigate the soon-to-be-everyday issues of living in a gay world? Watch the Chapter Videos. In their role as pastors, Adam Barr and Ron Citlau have seen how this issue can tear apart families, friendships, and even churches. In this book they combine biblical answers with practical, real-world advice on how to think about and discuss this issue with those you care about. They also tell the story of Ron's personal journey from same-sex attraction and sexual brokenness to healing.

Truth does not preclude kindness--and a good dose of humility is necessary to love our neighbors.